tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post8988332853148077494..comments2023-07-05T11:01:35.281+01:00Comments on Against Her Better Judgment: In which I contemplate younger menBlondehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04135846185772109032noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-70047253736975998512012-08-31T06:16:47.788+01:002012-08-31T06:16:47.788+01:00Dating my first ever younger man after a five year...Dating my first ever younger man after a five year relationship with a now 30 year old man-child, and loving every minute. I was terrified at first but he is in fact more mature (than even me at times), more attentive and a perfect fit. I broke my one major rule with him and don't regret it for a second. My only issue is being labelled a cougarette for which I can only thank Heat magazine.ajdoesbesthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12959703619016862535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-10262644349724228172012-08-30T17:18:33.303+01:002012-08-30T17:18:33.303+01:00I find myself marrying a 25 year old. I am 28. I d...I find myself marrying a 25 year old. I am 28. I didn't think 25 year old 'boys' were interested in that kind of thing but my one very much is....just all depends on the person.<br /><br />(I'm not saying I didn't have a freak out when I found out. I apparently put my head on his chest and squealed 'Why does this keep happening to me, you're SO YOUNG'. Something which I don't remember because we were both acting our ages - I was out of my face drunk and he was very sober)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-74250249547943226442012-08-29T15:16:58.047+01:002012-08-29T15:16:58.047+01:00Blonde: Its all about being grown-up.
A man can b...Blonde: Its all about being grown-up. <br />A man can be beyond his age or indeed act like a child. Some act like toddlers (Poor tortured souls). Still there are a few of us left who are grown-ups, yet possess the ability to have a lot of fun when and where appropriate.<br /><br />Foodycat: Hilarious and good to hear you were kept on the straight and narrow.<br /><br />Perhaps these year-long relationships never last and primarily because your subconscious labels them as nothing but utility! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-11950943831658649392012-08-29T10:55:12.873+01:002012-08-29T10:55:12.873+01:00I went walking in the Cotswolds when I was 24. Jus...I went walking in the Cotswolds when I was 24. Just do what you like, whatever age you are, and all is good. *turns nobly towards the horizon in pursuit of sloes to turn into gin.<br /><br />My boyfriend is a whopping four months younger than me and is very smug about the fact he gets to cling on to 29 for longer than I. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-153731480093372602012-08-29T10:54:40.882+01:002012-08-29T10:54:40.882+01:00there are younger men everywhere. they look much b...there are younger men everywhere. they look much better : )Uyen Luuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01064309074528821301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-30439320604151229802012-08-29T09:47:29.604+01:002012-08-29T09:47:29.604+01:00I can completely see where you're coming from....I can completely see where you're coming from. I have many friends who tend to go for the younger man. However, none of those relationships have ever lasted beyond a year.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986749517508432852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-10716507446491507792012-08-28T22:35:39.025+01:002012-08-28T22:35:39.025+01:00I've had a crush on a younger man this year. A...I've had a crush on a younger man this year. A lot younger. It was disgraceful. Fortunately my (older) husband prevented me from making a total fool of myself.Alicia Foodycathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11931796992646884249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-21326168693943847392012-08-28T17:07:08.948+01:002012-08-28T17:07:08.948+01:00B: I've always found it a bit on the twee side...B: I've always found it a bit on the twee side, if I'm honest. :)Sean Fleminghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10950618625438999364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-69332319880699377102012-08-28T16:22:11.114+01:002012-08-28T16:22:11.114+01:00Helen: Hurrah for younger men.
PDEWYMO: Perhaps b...Helen: Hurrah for younger men.<br /><br />PDEWYMO: Perhaps bizarrely, TW's far more grown-up than some of the older chaps I've dated. I think it's a state of mind, rather than state of age thing.<br /><br />Anon: Txt spk prohibits a chap from getting a date at all, regardless of age.<br /><br />NC: Hah - you're clearly feeling particularly hard to please today!<br /><br />Sean: How can you not like the Cotswolds?! Gorgeous part of the world.Blondehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04135846185772109032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-5612327103818945002012-08-28T14:42:03.970+01:002012-08-28T14:42:03.970+01:00I think if one happens to live in the Cotswolds, a...I think if one happens to live in the Cotswolds, and has functioning legs, the matter of age is of secondary concern when it comes to the matter of walking in the Cotswolds. Personally, I'd rather crawl anywhere than do anything in the Cotswolds. But I suspect that's just me.<br /><br />A friend of mine is married to a guy 15 years her junior and seems perfectly happy with the situation.<br /><br />They don't live in the Cotswolds though.Sean Fleminghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10950618625438999364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-61923820014467585602012-08-28T12:54:06.908+01:002012-08-28T12:54:06.908+01:00Anonymous - I don't know, I'm in my 30s an...Anonymous - I don't know, I'm in my 30s and I'd rather like to go for a walk in the Cotswolds. *sigh* I presume this is my problem.<br /><br />I'm torn on younger men. They're pretty and enthusiastic and carefree. But sometimes you want something a little more serious. <br /><br />Having said that, I met some older men over the weekend, and I immediately wondered what was wrong with them - how could men their age still be single? nuttycowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10404690160646306404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-75224046445141573712012-08-28T10:41:58.255+01:002012-08-28T10:41:58.255+01:00Mrs Robinson, I beg to differ. As a man in his thi...Mrs Robinson, I beg to differ. As a man in his thirties now (but with a twenty-ish twinkle in his eye), I'd never date women older than myself after a number of, well, lets call them "bunny-boiler experiences"...<br /><br />Is this just a case of the exuberant maxim: "you're only as old as the man you feel?"<br /><br />I do however, wish your friend, the very best of luck in her choice of younger men. My advice - avoid the ones who "yoof speak", text without using any vowels. God help us. Looks and intellect if nothing else! ;)<br /><br />PS - going walking in the Cotswolds is for your 60's, not your thirties.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-75834974492897205142012-08-28T10:28:23.010+01:002012-08-28T10:28:23.010+01:00Nearly all my boyfriends have been younger than me...Nearly all my boyfriends have been younger than me. Despite these relationships not really exactly quite working out...I'd still opt for younger again. <br /><br />Besides, my mate's dating a 32 year old and they go walking in the Cotswolds and stuff at the weekend. Aside from anything else, I'm just not ready for that sort of commitment yet. <br /><br />Please Don't Eat With Your Mouth Openhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09246896544080806179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-68315790640240620172012-08-28T10:12:55.641+01:002012-08-28T10:12:55.641+01:00I'm exactly the same. I'm in the best rela...I'm exactly the same. I'm in the best relationship I've ever had with a man who is 3.5 years younger than me. It's the way forward, I've discovered.Helenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15187405625806124612noreply@blogger.com