tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post3740864139246956719..comments2023-07-05T11:01:35.281+01:00Comments on Against Her Better Judgment: In which I factor in the exBlondehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04135846185772109032noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-52213202874788395532010-06-01T09:05:28.836+01:002010-06-01T09:05:28.836+01:00Amen to that. I totally agree - if you can deal wi...Amen to that. I totally agree - if you can deal with all the shit you have to put up with during the relationship and still love the person, there's no reason you shouldn't still get on after the split. Ex sex, as we all know however, is a big no-no.nuttycowhttp://http//palezvousmoo.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-83727593338836321292010-06-02T02:16:28.475+01:002010-06-02T02:16:28.475+01:00Not sure if there truly haven't been any comme...Not sure if there truly haven't been any comments yet or if you just haven't posted :)....so I read this about 12 hours ago and will jump in now!<br><br>So, I think the fact that you are both sleeping with other people is a *really* good reason not to hang out...and I base that on the fact that men don't hang out with girls that they don't find attractive...so I'm just sayin...you have more guts than I dear. I don't have the balls to hang out and drink with people that I might want something more with. Though perhaps, I'm only 39 and I'll grow up. Can't wait to hear what the menfolk say, but I've never known a man to spend a second with a woman he didn't secretly think about having sex with.<br><br>Love the blog as always,<br>An American fan!scoopnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-5080218550866278162010-06-02T10:26:25.128+01:002010-06-02T10:26:25.128+01:00Here be menfolk!Men will mostly hang out with wome...Here be menfolk!<br><br>Men will mostly hang out with women they find attractive and want to sleep with but this is only true for the first phase of a relationship (sexual or not). Depending on the person, sooner or later this can change.<br><br>I have female friends that I know for more than 10 years. They are still as attractive as they were back then. By now I don't spend a second thinking about sex with them. Same goes with at least one of my exes.<br><br>I still do think that these things need (a lot of) time.A Malenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-10744250253147374562010-06-02T12:55:27.595+01:002010-06-02T12:55:27.595+01:00NC: Good to know it's not just a bizarre littl...NC: Good to know it's not just a bizarre little theory I've cooked up on my lonesome! Ex sex is indeed a no-no. <br><br>Scoop: Comment moderation - a deceptive thing! I like to think that my exes and I are all grown up enough to be friends (though I'm sure I'll be proven wrong, sooner rather than later). I also think that we're all able to restrain ourselves from leaping into each other's pants. Although the day I break up with Clive Owen, that may change.<br><br>A Male: Welcome, ambassador for your species. Yes, I'd agree that you need to be over them for it to work, but once you are, you're good to go.Blondehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04949311774305277801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-24469436529841779642010-06-06T12:51:31.661+01:002010-06-06T12:51:31.661+01:00It's all one way in Hamish World.Haven't a...It's all one way in Hamish World.<br><br>Haven't a problem with continuing a platonic relationship with my Ex's.They, on the other hand, just can't handle it.<br><br>For some reason the thought of even seeing me again is too much..........Hamishnoreply@blogger.com