tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post1826487496298768623..comments2023-07-05T11:01:35.281+01:00Comments on Against Her Better Judgment: In which I consider my optionsBlondehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04135846185772109032noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-84977067015617356232010-03-15T09:53:18.104+00:002010-03-15T09:53:18.104+00:00Wise words Ms Blonde. I think you're right tho...Wise words Ms Blonde. I think you're right though - if it didn't work the first time, why will it the next time?nuttycowhttp://parlezvousmoo.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-72856044613143551202010-03-15T10:30:27.692+00:002010-03-15T10:30:27.692+00:00I'm with the Mooster. The booze thing makes me...I'm with the Mooster. The booze thing makes me a tad twitchy.Brennighttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10553332352189636358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-89083611568604487372010-03-15T10:40:07.758+00:002010-03-15T10:40:07.758+00:00NC: With him? It wouldn't. The man is just too...NC: With him? It wouldn't. The man is just too high-maintenance. Oh, and bonkers.<br><br>Brennig: With MC, it's not booze. He has rather an attachment to the charlie...Blondehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04949311774305277801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-44665697716837704812010-03-15T13:46:02.081+00:002010-03-15T13:46:02.081+00:00I find men with a charlie issue are often impetuou...I find men with a charlie issue are often impetuous and far too demanding - in that the world is their little world.<br><br>It's scary, I'm happy I got away from my ex who was exactly like this.smidgehttp://www.miss-smidge.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-45502322591119667052010-03-15T14:11:56.013+00:002010-03-15T14:11:56.013+00:00I completely agree with you -- being alone is far ...I completely agree with you -- being alone is far superior to being in a bad relationship. (Although I also agree that the thought of never having to work again is tempting!)Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02700753775821511580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-16461211854923565312010-03-15T14:22:57.921+00:002010-03-15T14:22:57.921+00:00Smidge: Impetuous and demanding are two words that...Smidge: Impetuous and demanding are two words that couldn't sum MC up more accurately. Best off out, methinks.<br><br>Emily: That would be the one thing that could tempt me back, I think! But then I would have to put up with the idiocy 24 hours a day, so on reflection...Blondehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04949311774305277801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-7498473673270364772010-03-15T17:28:52.634+00:002010-03-15T17:28:52.634+00:00I never said you should get back together, merely ...I never said you should get back together, merely that it seemed likely. It seems sometimes that he's not quite out of your system yet (what a horrible turn of phrase).<br><br>I'm with you that single is better than a bad relationship. To be honest, it's better than anything other than a fantastic relationship. Especially with an "umfriend" like Speckled Lad around...Gin Operatedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05012605165115199408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-84408791850777284882010-03-15T20:07:03.162+00:002010-03-15T20:07:03.162+00:00I'm a firm believer that if something didn'...I'm a firm believer that if something didn't work the first time, then it won't work the second time either.<br><br>From what you have said about MC, I suspect this would be the case here too.theperpetualspiralhttp://theperpetualspiral.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-7976988638359912442010-03-16T08:56:53.068+00:002010-03-16T08:56:53.068+00:00GO: Heh - I think you're far too sensible to s...GO: Heh - I think you're far too sensible to suggest he and I actually get back together! I think it was just your lack of surprise that surprised me. (Loving the term 'umfriend', by the way). x<br><br>TPS: I think if things were fantastic the first time, and it was purely circumstances that led to a split, then there's probably something that can be rescued. As it is, MC and I weren't fantastic the first time round - I don't think it's possible to paper over chasms just because there's history.Blondehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04949311774305277801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-26190662521779861962010-03-16T16:22:50.755+00:002010-03-16T16:22:50.755+00:00I think you should wait and see if he becomes Majo...I think you should wait and see if he becomes Major Celebrity THEN decide...........Hamishnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5734266766203380275.post-4790189406862996012010-03-16T17:53:55.602+00:002010-03-16T17:53:55.602+00:00Hamish: That is an excellently pragmatic approach,...Hamish: That is an excellently pragmatic approach, and if the man weren't quite so high maintenance, I could be quite tempted.Blondehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04949311774305277801noreply@blogger.com